A "for no reason" post on love

So what if you've been together for 3,4,5 even 6 years. When the passion's gone, it's gone. Besides, you were so young then. It's good if the both of you are trying to patch things up. But that only applies if the both of you still have feelings for each other. 

Feelings, make sure you know very well what you are feeling. Is it passion/love or is it just routine? Understand your feelings first and know what you want is more than 100% sure before you make a decision. Some things cannot be taken back.

Afraid to admit what you are feeling and lying to yourself is not going to get you anywhere. So what if you partner is happy? But are you? Isn't being in a relationship/in love suppose to be happy? If you are not happy, then what are you in?

Love. Love means accepting the person for who he/she is, not wanting the person to become who you want them to be. There is  nothing about that person you ever want to change. Good or bad, everything of that person in your eyes is just perfect. And you, how long can you pretend to be that person that you are not in front of him/her? How long do you think you can get away with it? You will eventually explode one day. The mask you wear will get heavier and heavier and when you finally take it off, he/she will not recognize the monster standing in front of them. Then, I will say now that it is your fault. You have not only wasted your time, but his/hers as well.

If you want the person you claim you love to change, then isn't he/she not the right fit for you?Stripping him/her of her freedom, life, friends... always feeling insecure and then invading their privacy.... are you then happy? If the puzzle doesn't fit the mould, then it doesn't fit. It's sad that you've spend all these years turning it in every angle you think might fit but, just let it go already. It's a 2000 piece puzzle. There is another 1999 other pieces you haven't tried.

If you don't like the person standing in front of you and is always complaining then, isn't that a hint? A sign? Ask yourself, why don't you want to listen to his/her day at work? Why don't you want to know more about his/her past times and interests? Why must you criticize who he/she hangs out with?Why must he/she be happy when you are happy and you cannot be sad when he/she is sad?

Being in love with each other might look like a 2 people thing, and it is. But if a 3rd person is used and hurt in your love, then ask yourself why? Why was there a 3rd person in the first place?

If only you could read what I just wrote. Please open your eyes and see with your heart. It doesn't have to be so bitter, it doesn't have to be so painful, or sad. It suppose to be such a beautiful thing.